Thursday, June 26, 2008

The Baby Borrowers



I took a personal day from work today to deal with some doctor appointments -- which gave me time to surf the net this morning.

Look at this new TV program I found out about:
http://www.nbc.com/The_Baby_Borrowers/

The premise is that a bunch of teenage kids are given babies to 'borrow' for a few days to see whether they can deal. It takes me back to junior high when a health class project was to have the girls take care of sacks of flour to give them a glimpse of what it was like to have a child all day.

I think the project may have had the opposite of it's intended effect (to convince girls that it was really hard to have a baby.) I remember all the girls carrying sacks of flour dressed in cute baby clothes. And what would be the consequences if you left your immaculately dressed sack of flour in the car for 5 hours? Absolutely nothing. And I'm pretty sure those sacks of flour slept through the night.

Pics of Olivia.

These pics are for Margaret -- hope you're feeling better soon. Will try to take some more pictures tonight (we haven't been taking very many pics lately.)



Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Formula vs pumping

Amazingly, I'm still nursing Olivia. Of course, I'm happy about the health benefits that I am passing to Olivia by nursing instead of using formula. But there are pros and cons to choosing breastmilk over formula as a working mom.

Ease -- I'll give this one to nursing -- nursing is a lot easier than heating formula and dealing with a sink full of dirty bottles.

Convenience -- On one hand, I don't have to worry about having bottles and formula when we go out. On the other hand, I DO have to worry about being near a baby or a breastpump everytime I go out. I can't tell you all the times I arrived at the office to find that I had left the pump at home, or even worse, left a part of the pump drying on the dishrack. Or the days that I took a day off from work or worked from home, but ended up having to go to the office to pump (and then getting sucked into some project or inquiries from coworkers.) Or the time that I had to drive across town at lunch to get a spare part. There's also the inconvenience of handling a perishable product. I can't count the number of times I've accidentally left the milk at work when rushing out to run daycare derby. When I think about all the physical and mental energy I've expended, I'd probably give this one to formula.

Cost -- A $15 can of formula makes about 15 servings. It takes me about 1/2 hour to pump 2 servings. So, if you equate time with money (which I still have trouble doing after too many years as a graduate student,) then formula is probably cheaper.

Also pumps and all the attachments aren't cheap. We were lucky enough to be able to borrow a pump from a friend, but I did rent a second pump for a while at the cost of $60/month.

Initially, we were storing milk in disposable Medela bags, which cost about 50 cents each. (Lanisoh makes a much more inexpensive BPA free bag) One of the best tips I got was from a friend's website, which suggests using Evenflo glass bottles for storage. In addition to being reusable, they are much easier to deal with (even though Spencer thought they were retarded when I first started using them.) (Although for new moms who are stockpiling will probably want to use bags.)

Green factor -- While I do spend a lot of water and energy washing the pump parts, I think I'l l give this one to nursing -- as I don't have to wash bottles after every feeding.

Wow, reading this, I wonder why I pump. In the end, I guess I kind of enjoy nursing. Advice I'd pass to new moms who are planning to pump:

1) Make a trip down to Babiesrus to get the pump parts as soon as you can. And it's well worth it to buy a couple extra, one for home, and one for the office. Wish I had done that!

2) We were freezing the milk initially, which led to a lot of wasted milk (whatever wasn't eaten in a day had to be thrown away.) So, I started refrigerating the milk instead of freezing it. Refrigerated milk supposedly lasts 2-3 days, while thawed milk has to be thrown away at the end of the day. I'm guessing that freshly refrigerated milk may have more nutrients intact as well. I've gone back to freezing everything, as it's too much of a hassle to remember how fresh the milk is.

3) Diversify your storage. We had an all night power outage in Berkeley one night, I was glad that I had half of our stash in San Francisco.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

GUEST BLOGGER: Margaret - My visit to SFO

Hi - It's me again, guest blogger, Margaret.

I visited Joyce and Spencer (oh, and also Olivia) last weekend - - - We had a great time. Olivia is growing really fast.

She will crawl over to her toys and choose what she wants to play with. Spencer and Joyce say that "she LOVES to eat" - and opens wide when she sees other people eating, or when Spencer is trying to feed her a taste of food.

The funniest thing is that she really IS a little bear. She has a happy growl (not caught on camera), and a mad growl (see blog posting, "Jim Reading, The Movie"). The mad growl is Olivia saying, "if you don't pay attention to me, I'm going to start crying!"

Here are some photos and a video (the first photo is our uncle and aunt who had us over for lunch at their beautiful home - Happy birthday, Auntie!):



And you can see the cute plaid outfit that our mother bought for Olivia - -






















Oh - and here is a movie!



Thursday, June 12, 2008

Home (sort of) Alone



Last weekend, I left Olivia at home with Spencer while I attended my cousin's wedding on the east coast. It was the first time that I've been away from Olivia overnight.

I had debated whether or not to take Olivia on the trip, and wow, am I glad I didn't. It was quite the adventure getting to the east coast. After a one hour delay taking off, another hour circling the Chicago O'Hare airport, and a jet landing with a collective sigh of relief, I deplaned to find out that my flight had been cancelled.

I saw many people in customer service lines with strollers or with brood in tow. Another lesson as a new parent -- to not book short trips if air travel is involved. Most of the families I saw at the airport were probably going to end up spending the night in Chicago. I was able to get a flight because I needed only one seat and I had the mobility to run around the airport and talk on the phone at the same time. I can't imagine dealing with a stroller, diaper bag, child that needed to be fed or changed.

I definitely missed Olivia while I was away, but she had a great time with Spencer.

Sunday, June 1, 2008

Time to childproof!

Well, the Luhs love the videos, and it sure is easier than writing.